Do you consider yourself a good partner? Are you confident that you are bringing out the best in your significant other? If you want to be in a relationship where you bring out the best in each other it takes effort. It’s easy to start offering suggestions and try to fix their problems. When you do they are likely to feel criticized
Helpfulness is the sunny side of criticism.
When someone tells you about a problem it could come across as displaying superiority to start telling them what to do. If you really want to help them consider a different way to help them. Tiny Budda had a good article on this Why No One Wants Unsolicited Advice (and What Actually Helps) (tinybuddha.com)
But what if you want to bring about the best in your partner what can you do?
Being a good partner takes effort and intentionality, and it’s not always easy to know how to inspire your loved one to be their best self. In this article, we’ll explore some practical steps you can take to help your partner thrive and create a more positive, fulfilling relationship.
Give them strokes for what they are good at, even if you do things differently. Everyone has their own unique strengths and talents, so make sure to acknowledge and appreciate your partner’s skills, even if they approach things differently than you would. Celebrate their successes and encourage them to keep developing their strengths.
Support their goals. Take an interest in your partner’s personal and professional goals, and offer encouragement and support as they work towards them. Check in regularly and ask how their progress is going. When they achieve a goal, celebrate it together!
Support them in their difficulties and ask them questions about how they are handling it. Life can be tough at times, and everyone goes through difficult periods. Show your partner that you care by listening and offering support when they’re going through a hard time. Ask questions about how they’re coping and how you can help.
Be a positive influence and show them how you handle things. Your partner looks up to you and values your opinion, so make sure to set a positive example by demonstrating healthy habits and coping mechanisms. If you encounter a challenge, show them how you handle it with resilience and positivity.
Cheer them on when they second-guess themselves. Sometimes our own self-doubt can hold us back from achieving our full potential. Be your partner’s biggest cheerleader and encourage them to pursue their goals, even when they’re feeling uncertain. Help them to see their own strengths and remind them of their past successes.
Remain open-minded and respect their choices.
Your partner is their own person with their own unique perspective on the world. Be open to their opinions and respect their choices, even if they differ from your own. Show them that you value their input and are willing to work together to find common ground.
Bringing out the best in your partner requires effort and commitment, but the results are well worth it. By giving your partner strokes for their strengths, supporting their goals, offering support during tough times, being a positive influence, cheering them on, and remaining open-minded and respectful, you can help them become the best version of themselves. Not only will this strengthen your relationship, but it will also create a loving and supportive environment that fosters personal growth and development. So take these tips to heart and start bringing out the best in your partner today!
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